Y'ALL ARE NOT GONNA FRIGGIN' BELIEVE THIS....
Friday, March 30, 2007
The Day The Music Died
ROB would so ask me, "What in the hell are you thinking girl???" And then proceed to tell me a great story or two about the evil cat creature when I called and told him about the damn cats Joey got the kids. But you know...I'd take any ass chewing he gave out if I could just pick up the phone and call him again....I used to call him every Sunday...I still have some Sundays it seems something is missing...I try to put a finger on it...and then it hits me....it's him...he's not there for me to call anymore....and this is my melancholy little post about a man that meant the world to me. I hate he's not here to see my new house, to "show those boys how to shoot a deer outta the bedroom window" like he promised....he wasn't here when I boiled that huge batch of peanuts when we first moved in....I know others miss him also, and I've not posted about missing him, I guess 'cuz I felt I didn't have the right....but dammit....I miss him....Joey did hit the nail on the head when he said, "Some people talk and talk and you don't hear a damn thing and others, you should just shut up and listen because you'll learn something. Rob's one of those you should just shut up and listen to, because you'll learn a lot." I read a post Sam wrote where she said she missed her dad....Sam so do I.
Labels: Friend, Gut Rumbles, Rob
When the day is done...
And there is nothing better than to settle down with a glass of White Zinfandel and let the kidz run free. If you're into Champagne and Wine
then you know that there is nothing like a nice chilled glass of the nectar of the grape to take the edge off, enhance your dinner or to help you relax. I've always been partial to the light wines, I don't really care for the darker varieties. And for New Years? I have got to have the bubbly!!
I have to go and babysit tomorrow from 7:30 am until 2:00 pm and with all three kidz at Nanny and Poppy's house, we ummm...had some alone time....and unlike most people it doesn't make me sleepy....it energizes me...and it's 12:54 am in the morning and I can't sleep....does this happen to anyone else?
Labels: insomnia, safe sex
This was just kinda cool...
Thursday, March 29, 2007
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|Your Observation Skills Get A C+|
You tend to notice the big things in life...
But the details aren't exactly your forte
Labels: Online Quiz Thingies
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I am SOOOO glad you got your nuts clipped....
Yep, that is what I said to hubby upon return from my babysitting excursion. At first I walked in and saw this 9 month old cherub, smiling and cooing and really missed mine being so small. I hated the fact that he'd had the vasectomy, the frozen peas on the cod episode as I call it. I really hated we couldn't have another little one...my name is NUTZ ya know?? Well, the baby was adorable, but had a HUGE case of the colic and cried for 2 hours straight at one point....I could do nothing to appease it. Finally, she went to sleep and all was well. Then when she woke up, we went for a walk in downtown Savannah for a couple of hours and just had a wonderful time. When it was time to return to the hotel she began crying again for about 30 minutes and then her mommy arrived and popped the boob into her mouth and all was well in baby land. Then I got paid....get this....$108 for ONE DAY.....6 hours...can you believe that?? Anyway, Nathan accompanied me and we left. On the ride home, he fell asleep and I called hubby and thanked him for getting neutered....BWAHAHAHAHA
Labels: babies, KIDZ
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Wednesday, March 28, 2007
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Ya Ever Had One of Those Days??
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
When everything just turned to crap? I have them a lot....I am trying to get my house back in order, but had meetings at school, and all kinds of other crap to do. Today was the day, I have 3 kids clothes to put up....toys, books, the whole shebang...not to mention ALL of my stuff. I took everything that was mine, that means Christmas decorations, some kitchen stuff etc. EVERYTIME I tried to get started Nathan was into something else...once he opened one of those plastic tubs of peaches, there it went all over the floor, then a whole pitcher of tea, next a whole can of my diet Dr. Pepper. So, I am bone tired and haven't accomplished anything....and I babysit in Savannah tomorrow, Friday and Saturday. We could just live outta garbage bags...right?
Labels: Nathan, starting over
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What Happens When You Innocently Ask....
What does that sign mean...."Purina Chick Days?" Around here it means 10 chicks and a new chicken coop. I do think it's cool and all, the kidz love it....and if they aren't all roosters, we'll have some eggs!!!
Monday, March 26, 2007
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The Saga, Part One...
Saturday, March 24, 2007
This can also be called, "How I know my in-laws are the fruit of Satan's loins." (sidenote to only decent in-law I have-I ain't talking 'bout cha Tonya) With everything that we've been through lately, it's been a confusing time for all concerned. I can say I am so thankful to be back home with, what appears to be, the man I married and not the demon he was becoming. He's really putting forth an effort and will have an appointment at the doctor's office next week to see about a new drug regimen and perhaps coping skills when he feels the bipolar and anger taking over. I know my husband better than anyone, and he is giving this family and marriage his all, at the moment. I in turn am doing the same. But, enough of that...let's get to the crazier than hell family he has. Part one, at least. Believe me, if I shared everything, we'd be here for years. Let's begin by saying that if this chick doesn't have some form of drama or someone to talk about, (usually someone she was just face to face with laughing and having a hi-ho time) then she ain't happy. I've done my damnest to get along with the two faced bitch...but it ain't happenin' I always manage to do something to tick her off and then she goes off the deep end and won't speak to me anymore. My latest transgression? I mentioned her son went to Hooter's. I honestly did not know it would send her over the edge. Damn, you'd have thought I said he snuck into a titty bar and got laid by a dancer...She seems to think that he ruins his testimony as a Christian by going in there. I on the other hand thinks the whole lying issue thing he has going on my be the culprit to the ruined testimony. But, of course, it got all turned around and I was lying and Justin, of deer killing fame, who practically lives at our house was lying...yadda, yadda, yadda. Basically your stupid 7th grade bullshit. Hell, I didn't even know she was mad until I called her for like 3 days and she didn't return the calls then Joey talked to somebody that gave him the scoop. Anyway....back to more recent events. So, I pack up the kidz stuff and mine, we leave. He calls his "ever concerned" sister...bullshit...his sister is concerned when drama happens, it gives her meaningless little life something to do. So, I'm sure with glee and wild abandonment she hops her fat ass over here as quickly as possible. Why you ask? Because, she's bringing her video camera to document the mess the house was left in. (Hello...no one said to change all the locks and make me bring policemen who gave me 20 minutes to grab stuff) I swear if "Idiots R Us" had a local chapter, I could pick their governing body. Anyway...I am gonna finish this later, suffice to say, by the end of the night, ol' sis was comforting the hubster by filling his head full of shit about me and a 17 year old kid having an affair...that is another story in and of itself.
Labels: starting over
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Friday, March 23, 2007
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Labels: survey site
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Everything is A-OK here...
I just have the damn flu...yep...the flu...went to the doctor today and was told I had the worst case she'd seen so far....isn't that lovely...my Motrin is working right now....so I jumped on to do my posts, both paid and unpaid, and also to thank all of you for standing by me and I will update what's all been going on here ASAP...promise...now...one more post and it's back to bed for me!
Labels: starting over
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All is well at the Nutz Household...
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
I'll update later, promise....I'm trying to get my house back in order...and we still don't have the kidz furniture back....no $$ for U-Haul...they don't mind...they love camping out on the den floor everynight. I'll be back later...lots to share and I'll welcome feedback when I do.
Labels: starting over
Your Redneck Word of the Day Is...
Monday, March 19, 2007
Aspect - [as-pekt] n and v
Having one's backside assaulted with a sharp object.
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"He got done skinny-dipping, passed out on that deck chair
and had his aspect by a woodpecker."
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So Far....So Good
Sunday, March 18, 2007
We have had the best weekend. I can really see that the hubby is trying with everything he has. He didn't stay in bed all day Saturday or Sunday! There has been no yelling or arguing. We went to pick up the kidz' trampoline at my mom's house and he put it together again as soon as we got home. Keep in mind, we moved into our new home August 1, 2006 and the thing had just stayed in the yard, he never once had any desire to put it together. Now it's together. I don't know if I've mentioned this before but hubby is a cabinet installer. That's his "official" title, but he also does counter tops, bathroom fixtures, etc. Anyway, he brought home a counter top that had been cut wrong by someone and his company was going to throw it away. He got it to make a table for me in our study so I can do my scrapbooking and Ebay stuff. It's sat here since August 5, 2006. Well, last month a friend gave me a really, really big computer desk, with storage and everything for my stuff. I told him I wanted the counter top in my laundry room. I don't know why, but to me it makes laundry a little more bearable to just scoop them out the dryer and fold right there. It is now in my laundry room and has already been used immensely!! Nicklaus and Joey stayed up half the night playing video games together. It's just been wonderful, like it used to be.
I can't say bipolar is and/or was the cause of all the problems, sometimes he's just an ass, no medical diagnosis needed. I really feel if he continues counseling and opens up about how horrendous his childhood was (even I don't know all of it, the parts I do are bad enough.) it would be much easier for him to cope with the effects of being bipolar. Just my hypothesis on that matter!! Take it with a grain of salt (with tequila and lemon, of course.) Hope this didn't bore you to much, stay tuned.....wait until I tell you about what went on when I left. It's a hoot & a half I tell ya :-) I didn't think idiots like these existed....and the things they can pump into someone's head, mainly my husband, really borders on "okay, I'm gonna knock your teeth down your throat, beeyotch!" His family is really a piece of work, I swear! They descend like vultures when they hear a marriage is dying....instead of being supportive and talking it out, seeing if there is anyway to salvage a relationship, keep a family together, a family with 3 kidz, they just go off the deep end and spew utter garbage. But they aren't really a big issue for us when we're together, he NEVER calls them. Lord, let me stop typing now....I promise more on this subject shortly
Labels: nature lover?, starting over
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Thursday, March 15, 2007
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What the hell is...
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
wrong with American children in need? Why does Angelina Jolie have to head to all these other countries to get children? It's just irks me that so many are doind without here and she has to keep jetting all over God's creation to find more. How many little foreign or domestic children can one person possible need? I know some countries are really asking for American children to help their orphans out, but these countries she goes to, well I guess except Vietnam, are ones no one has ever heard of, much less been asked to take children from. Whatever.......
Labels: Adoption, Angelina Jolie
Yep...I am kinda excited to see....
How he'll handle dinner, in public, with the three kids tonight...will he be attentive? I really think so, he's dying for us to come home, and we'll go tomorrow afternoon, when I can get the kids stuff together for the weekend and all....I don't even have a way to move my furniture back...but you know....I'm not going to worry about it, he knows it needs to be moved and he's promised to do everything he can to get it back home....it never would have been moved in the first place, well, if all the shit that happened hadn't happened....but, I think we're going to be a stronger family and a stronger couple because of it....and I keep labeling my posts as starting over, because, that's really what we are doing...starting over as a family, and starting our marriage, the right way....
Labels: starting over
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I appreciate all of your kind words and encouragement about my seperation and about my reconciliation. In my heart, I know that my family deserves to be together and I am feeling very positive about our chances at making this work. My husband does have bipolar and thus some of this is due to this evil illness. But, he is willing to work on it, and I am willing to work on what I need to. I was not a perfect wife, I did in NO WAY deserve what was being done, and neither did the kids, but I also know, that the man I fell in love with still does exist and it just took this giant hit to his head and heart to make him realize it. We are going to be going through a lot finanically, it is going to be a very tough road, I know this, but we are willing to work WITH each other this time, instead of against each other. We are going to make time for US also. In 7 years, we have been able to be alone, without any children maybe 5-6 times. And I'm not talking about a weekend or anything, we've been able to have a dinner together, maybe that many times without 1-3 children. Our marriage is important to us, and we are going to work on it. We're going to get our kids on a schedule, instead of letting them basically do whatever. They have beds, they are going to use them, instead of ours. We've got a long road ahead of us, but I really feel like, together, with both of us working on it, it can work. So, thanks again, and please do not stop the prayers, we need them now more than ever.
Labels: starting over
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Tuesday, March 13, 2007
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Let me clarify....
We are going to spend the weekend with him, NOT move back in immediately....If he came to me begging and crying and promising to change everything, I would NOT believe him....This is not how it is....he knows he screwed up big time, in fact a lot of time today was spent with just Nicklaus, and he and Nicklaus talking and working things out, Joey knows he treated us all wrong, but he is especially sorry for the way he did Nicklaus, because Nicklaus is a child and daddies shouldn't do that. But, he is willing to get help, he is willing to go to extra counseling sessions as a couple and as a family. He is willing to give 100% to be the man he should be. And I took vows, ALL of my children wanted to go home tonight, and I held off. I want it to be when he's home, all day, so I can see if this can be done. Someone with bipolar and the issues he has is not the best at hiding aggravation, annoyance, and a myriad of other things for extended periods of time....so, the kids are out of school on Friday, he works half a day...we'll see, that's all I can do, is see....and ask for all of your prayers that maybe, just maybe, I have my family and life back like it used to be....
Labels: starting over
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The husband came over today to see the kids and me....It went really well....I know that many will say this will never work....but, I really so believe that by my taking away the thing that matters to him most,his family, he sees what he had and how he was pissing it away....He says we mean everything to him....and he does still love me, he was just trying to be a hardass, and that is how he handles things,he is hoping that counseling will help, and he is going to talk to his doctor about new medication,and he has got to work through all the shit his family put him through and still continues to put him through....his sister is such a bitch....never calls unless there is drama.....we are going to stay over this weekend, and maybe even stay forever....she won't be calling then....and we're going to work on being a family like we used to....most people say it can't work....but I am going to give it another shot....I want my home, I want my complete family and I want my husband back....so, I just wish someone would wish me luck....instead of waiting for it to fail....I know of people that leave a slew of times and just head back home after a few days....This is my first....and with God's help, it will be my last.....
Labels: starting over
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Monday, March 12, 2007
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Labels: Self Promotion
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I have spoken to him several times today...and as stupid as this makes me sound....I am devastated.....I was told he doesn't love me at all anymore....feelings changed....doesn't want me back now....or ever I guess....I should not be hurt....but I am dying inside....and yes....I'm pissed off....after all I have done for him....he doesn't love me anymore?????and after all he has done to me....I still love him????
Labels: single mom, starting over
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